Friday, March 10, 2006

Sometimes we all need help.

How do you recognize that you need some help with your communication skills?

This is one question which actually put me on the path to self growth. We get used to reacting to our surrounding circumstances right from a very young age and believe that staying safe and unhurt is the best way to succeed. We get stuck in our own graves.

Instead of being a driver of performance, our adrenaline becomes a mechanism to detect threats. No wonder we are coming up with new names for diseases everyday.
Back to our question, how do you know?

I had come across so many circumstances in my life where I saw the flags all along which screamed at me “dude, it ain’t working, do something different” but I was stuck to being comfortable and I did the same old things which got me so frustrated.

It was not until I put aside everything I believed to be true, and began to question reality that I got somewhere. I began to find the difference between what is expected and what I wanted to really do. Only then, did I come up with the real issues in hand.

Go back and find three things in your life in that are causing you problems. Identify them. Because,

Until you know your enemy you cannot defeat him.

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Live life to the fullest,
Sri Hari H S
The Communications Guy